Hi everyone – here’s my homily for the THIRD SUNDAY OF EASTER – APRIL 30, 2017. The readings can be found at http://www.usccb.org/bible/readings/043017.cfm . Thanks as always for reading; for sharing it on Reddit, Twitter, Facebook and for your comments and feedback. Thanks as always! Fr Jim
On Friday’s The Catholic Guy Show, the host, Lino Rulli talked about this growth of what can be described as “Catholic Self-Help” books and programs… Which as we started to look at the advertisements for them, you could be concerned they were making some lofty promises and outrageous claims. One guaranteeing to free you from any addiction. Another one promising to help you achieve the peace, the happiness you’re longing for. All you have to do is buy their book!
One “program” in particular that I found particularly frustrating was directed to parents saying “You wish your child would return to church?” and then after sharing some frighteningly true statistics about the number of people who’ve stopped going to Mass, or claim not to be Catholic anymore made the bold claim ‘You need proven strategies that work’ – as they introduced their 16 part video series that promises “How to get your child back to the Church.”
I prayed and prayed for my friend to be healed from this awful illness; for this job to come through; to win this award or that competition; to get accepted to that school, get that scholarship; and it didn’t happen, so. . .
I’d say, ‘You got a divorce? Well, maybe we can meet and I can help you get an annulment’ (as if that would erase all the pain involved in divorce). Or I’d say, ‘Your priest was removed? Well, did you know that the number of priests like that is statistically very small compared to the vast numbers of good guys’ (as if that would somehow would make those horrific atrocities go away)
Sure I was well intentioned and there was some truth in those statements. But when I think back I kind of cringe at those memories. For one thing, I can’t remember any time where that approach actually worked. In fact, those times were all utter failures. Because my focus was on me and what I wanted to do… I was going to logically convince them they were wrong – I was going to get them to go to Church, be a part of a community, fix whatever problem or mistakes, so that – so what, exactly?
So that I’d feel important? So that I’d be right? So that I’d feel I earned my paycheck that week? What I finally learned was that it’s not until you go through your own tough times, your own struggles, your own times of doubt and despair that you realize how inadequate this approach is.
What stands out in reading this beautiful encounter is that what ultimately brings their slow hearts back ‘up to speed’ is how they meet Jesus in their depression – on their roads of sadness, in the midst of their confusion. They discover Jesus’ loving presence in the midst of their pain, doubts, and failures. And how does Jesus do that? He patiently listens to them, (notice he doesn’t jump out and say “Uh, guys, it’s me…”) Because He knows what they’ve gone through has been awful – Not that Jesus hasn’t had a bad couple days too – but in His selfless love, he listens to them share their pain and because He Listens to them, they are prepared for Jesus to share His story – even though they don’t at first realize it is Him.
And what do they hear? That were able to hear Jesus recount to them that even in the midst of incredible suffering, He knew His Father was with Him- Knew he wasn’t abandoned and knew the Father was leading Jesus into His Glory. As they listen to Jesus, little by little, the unbelievable words of the women became a little less unbelievable . . .
They want that too.And so – as this ‘stranger’ seems about to leave them behind and continue His journey - they ask Him, and He agrees to stay with them. And in that staying with them, in that sharing in the Eucharist, their eyes are opened and they finally see that Jesus has been right there with them, all along.
That’s the central message that this Gospel wants us to rejoice in. Easter wasn’t just a historic event that happened thousands of years ago and ended. We as Jesus’ disciples 2000+ years later have come to know, and experienced and believe that Jesus is right here with us, too. But we can’t allow our faith our belief to blind us to those we know who aren’t with us – or perhaps even some who are – who might not feel that; might not believe that – because of some pain, confusion, doubt, uncertainty they’re experiencing in their lives. Something that is causing distress or despair in their spiritual lives that makes it hard for them to see Jesus, knowing Jesus is present to them in whatever trial, whatever cross they are bearing…